Resources for Adults with Aging Parents

Note: While I hope you find these service providers and resources useful, this list is not an endorsement of any service or person.

Medical:

  • Geriatric care managers are health and human services professionals such as a gerontologist, nurse, counselor, social worker, or psychologist with a specialization in issues related to aging and elder care. Care managers work privately with older adults and their families to create a plan of care that meets the needs of an older adult.
  • You can find a geriatric care manager in your area on their website.

Placement Services: (assistance in finding senior living options)

In home care:

Housing:

  • Aging in place remodeling/designing, Barbara Murphy, Neil Kelly, 503-288-6345
  • Realtors certified as “Senior Real Estate Specialists” (SRES)

Money Management:

  • a referral service of the U.S. Administration on Aging
  • operators will give you phone numbers for state and local senior service contacts
  • provide trained volunteers in the tri-county area to help seniors sort through housing, healthcare and financial abuse issues
  • seniors who’ve been scammed can get counseling and help in filing complaints with authorities
  • offers a range of services to seniors to help them retain/maintain independence

Books:

  • When Roles Reverse: A Guide to Parenting Your Parents by Jim Comer
  • A Dignified Life: The Best Friends Approach to Alzheimer’s Care, A Guide for Family Caregivers by Virginia Bell and David Troxel
  • Alzheimer’s Disease and Other Dementias – The Caregiver’s Complete Survival Guide by Nataly Rubinstein
  • Coping With Your Difficult Older Parent : A Guide for Stressed-Out Children by Grace Lebow, Barbara Kane, and Irwin Lebow
  • Coming of Age with Aging Parents: The Bungles, Battles, and Blessings by Gail Goeller
  • The Parent Care Conversation: Six Strategies for Dealing with the Emotional and Financial Challenges of Aging Parents by Dan Taylor
  • How to Survive Your Aging Parents: So You and They Can Enjoy Life, Second Edition by Raeann Berman, Bernard H. Shulman, and M.D., Bernard H. Schulman
  • Communication and Assertion Skills for Older Persons (1987) (Series in Death Education, Aging and Health Care) by Leilani Doty